Nothing is more amazing to me than the comfort of lying beside someone and breathing together. I have always been drawn to healing and wellness. Back in the day, I participated in encounter groups, went to a shyness clinic when I was struggling with social phobia, have been part of massage groups & anxiety support groups. Am striving for a more peaceful world thru individual happiness. I also lead a cuddle group for men in Chicago.
(Pronouns: He, Him.) I am open to cuddling people wherever they reside on the range of gender and orientation — male, female, trans, gay, straight, bi, questioning, etc.
“Dwight was wonderful and just the right person for my introduction to cuddling. I felt so comfortable with him. He was very caring and respectful. I felt like I was spending time with a long-time friend. What can I say? I love cuddling with the guy.” Joe, Questioning Husband & Repeat Cuddlist Client .
“I am a single mom raising a child. I consider myself ‘hetero-flexible.’ LOL. Sometimes I just need more me time. I felt safer knowing that my cuddler was a gay man.” Laura, Single Mom & Creative Artist .
“Dwight was a wonderful facilitator for cuddling. I can easily feel threatened by people especially in vulnerable situations. His gentle and open nature made me feel safe to be myself. Thanks again for giving me such a huge experience of positive touch.” Nora, Psychotherapist wanting to feel cared for
“I used to have a partner but no longer, and I haven’t dated in years. I just missed holding someone and being held! Dwight provided me just the comfort I was seeking. And he’s a good listener.” Roy, Single Gay Man seeking platonic affection
In my hugging and cuddling, I strive to express unconditional love and empathy for all people, and to give my partner my attention and my engagement. I work in the nonprofit world, design cool websites, and write sci-fi novels. If you’re not sure you’re ready to book a cuddle session just yet, feel free to ask me a question or two. Press “Request a Session.” I look forward to answering! Or just take a leap of faith and make a booking with me. My cuddling site tells you more: http://dwightcuddles.weebly.com/
Session information from Dwight
We can cuddle on either the futon or the bed, whichever you prefer. Optional amenities: If you like, I can prepare the space with gently fragrant essential oils. Soothing music can play from my portable Bose speaker with various playlists (from gentle alternative pop to Gregorian chants, or suggest something! ). I have a book called The Cuddle Sutra which depicts various cuddle positions. A long embrace, spooning, face to face, head on chest, just breathing together side by side, holding hands, talking, not talking, laughing. All these things are options.
Whether in private cuddling or group cuddling, I’m interested in how we humans can find better ways to get our intimacy needs met. We live in a stressed-out, plugged in world. As a cuddler, I hope to pave the way for a more inhabitable, cozy world by using whatever abilities I have. Our time together can and should be an oasis. At times I can hold your head gently in my hands to calm your mind as worries melt away. Or I can do a light neck/back rub since we all carry tension from sitting and working at our computers.
I offer cuddle sessions in various increments:
MY CURRENT RATES ARE LOWERED TO MAKE THE EXPERIENCE MORE ACCESSIBLE.
60 minutes for $60 (instead of the standard rate of $80).
* * * NOW OFFERING “THE STARTER CUDDLE” which is 30 minutes for $30! * * *
LONGER SESSIONS. 90 minutes for $90. 120 minutes for $120.
(Also I am open to overnight sessions for regular clients.)
I believe cuddling is an inalienable right for all humans whether they are partnered or single.