Session Rate: $80/hour
St Paul, MN | East Side
About Kat K
I have expertise in the areas of overcoming fear, radical self-love, emotional regulation, and integrating ones spiritual self with their physical, emotional and sensual selves. I found that after years of meditating, doing yoga, running, eating well and generally being ‘spiritual’, I still felt very empty, alone and actually avoided real connection. As a human being who is very body centered, I have always experienced my true essence through my senses. Connecting with people physically is, in my opinion, the most direct route to our own divinity and love. That is why I cuddle!
“Kat is a loving light who is dedicated to positive, mutually beneficial connection with other beings. She is well versed in consent and boundaries and has personally provided me with safe, beautiful spaces.” ~Amber
“I loved our time together. Stroking your hair, feeling you close, all while feeling safe, comfortable, and confident was amazing! You are a gifted, beautiful person!” ~ Michael
“After our session, I was able to share some of what we went over with my wife and ask for more affection. I’ve already learned a lot!” ~Sara
Note: LGBTQIA+ friendly. Open to all genders and people. She/her pronouns. Experience working with people with ASD, Selective Mutism and Anxiety Disorders. Se habla español.
Session information from Kat K
Upon arrival, I will orient you to my home and cuddle space, offer you a glass of water and ask you if you have a music preference. You can wear comfy clothes or change when you get here. Cuddle sessions take place in a cozy room on a plush queen size mattress with fuzzy blankets, lots of pillows, unscented candles and a calm ambiance. The Cuddlist Code of Conduct, along with boundary setting and consent exercises, will allow us to build a container that makes cuddling safe, comfortable, non-sexual and extremely satisfying. Cuddling will give you the opportunity to practice feeling into and asking for the kind of touch that you desire. If you struggle to know what you like or ask for it, I will guide you in noticing what you enjoy and being able to put it into words. This kind of practice inevitably spills into your everyday life and leaves you feeling confident to ask for what you want and comfortable with both yes and no as a response. And of course, cuddling promotes presence and relaxation; It is nearly impossible to let your mind wander when someone is massaging your scalp, touching your face or snuggling into your body. Through cuddling, you will have the opportunity to move closer to your true essence: to quiet, feel into, relax and come back to yourself deeply.
Note: I have a cat, a large dog and a child who are all very mellow and often present. Some of my pillows are down, so if you have a feather sensitivity, you may want to bring your favorite pillow. I ask my clients to refrain from wearing cologne or perfume.
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