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Trained Cuddlist

Session Rate: $120/hour

San Francisco, CA

About Arielle

*I am double vaccinated and had covid-19 before so my immunity is off the charts!*

My Story
“Can you hold me while I cry?” a friend asked me a year ago. I thought I would feel overwhelmed or strange because he was a man, but I didn’t. I felt relief and even pride. I was impressed that he was asking for the type of support that so many men need but are afraid to ask for. We had a few extremely comforting hours together, and I saw how, over the next couple weeks, his faith in humanity and quality of life tremendously improved.

This is how my career as a cuddler began.

I know how important touch is, and I know how important it is for that touch to be *on your own terms.* Many people don’t have opportunities to establish boundaries that they need, to ask for what they want, or to say “no” when they want. And it’s led to so much touch starvation and loneliness, especially for men, who are wrongly taught that cuddling is unmanly (what a sad lie!).

Professional cuddling is the perfect solution to the problem of touch starvation. This is your chance to cuddle on your own terms.

I’m more than happy to teach you what I have learned about communicating wants and boundaries, and I’m looking forward to discovering how cuddling can make you feel happy about yourself and the world. I’m proud of you and I’m proud of me for turning here to make this life a little safer and warmer.

About Me
I spend most my time cuddling and making art! I also enjoy weight training, dancing, reading about decision theory, and eating macarons. I was accepted to graduate school to become a therapist and postponed attendance because of covid but hope to attend soon.

Session information from Arielle

I ask that you:
– provide a clean and quiet space
– be respectfully hygienic
– keep touch platonic
– tell me about any disabilities that could affect our session before we meet
– are and remain completely sober
– wear no less than a tank and shorts

***I reserve the right to leave any session and stop communication without refund should I feel my boundaries are not being respected***

I prefer a one week’s notice for booking sessions (in a couple months this will become a requirement). I ask for 30% at the time of booking to cover my travel expenses and time and to make sure you’re committed. I ask for the remainder at the beginning of the session. There are no refunds should you cancel the session or should I cancel the session if I perceive there are or will be boundary violations. If I cancel a session due to logistical issues on my part, we may reschedule or I will refund you.

Looking forward to cuddling with you!

Skills & Specialties

ASMR Mindfulness Practices Meditation


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