Session Rate: $80/hour
San Diego, CA
My name is Care and I would love to help you explore the benefits of safe, platonic, non-sexual touch. This self-care practice is life changing and I can show you how! This type of nurturing touch helped me to understand how touch deprived we are as adults and how we are missing this connection in today’s world. Cuddling also helped me establish and practice strong boundaries with people in every area of my life. I knew I had to share it with others.
From my first private cuddle session with a Cuddlist cuddler I felt safe and held. I knew from that session, that this is what I had already been doing in my other career as a birth professional. I went on to certify with Cuddle Sanctuary as both a private cuddler and a Cuddle Workshop Facilitator.
I enjoy holding people and being held – think big spoon/little spoon. In the past, what type of touch has made you feel safe and loved? And if you can’t recall, then I can offer you ideas for recall and you will create your own special “menu” of comfort. Sometimes just holding another person and relaxing from the stress of your life is all you need. I am a natural born healer in all of my jobs, which is why my self care also involves going to professional cuddle sessions and group cuddles to fulfill my love of feeling close and nurtured.
In a private session, touch can range from warm and nurturing to playful and laughing. Tears and laughter and all emotions in between are welcome when we cuddle. It can be quiet, with or without your music selection or I can be listening to whatever you need to talk about. Everything is held in strict confidence. You get to lead the session and I can help with ideas if you are unsure about what you want. You may always change your mind with anything in a session and no touch is ever required. I suggest an hour and a half time slot for your first session so that you have time to relax and drop into the experience. I look forward to meeting you!
Session information from Care
Thank you for your interest in some “self-care” with me. I will respond to your request within 24 hours. Before our first session I will email you a link for a cuddle questionnaire, the Cuddlist Code of Contact, a waiver and I also require a copy of your Drivers license or State ID for safety purposes. We will then arrange a 10-15 minute Skype or Facetime call so we can see if we are mutually a good fit. If not, I am happy to offer you other resources or people that meet your needs better. This is all about YOU and I want to help you find what you are looking for.
There’s a restroom where you can change into your cuddle clothes and freshen up if you wish. Good hygiene is a must – squeeky clean and minty fresh is required and I agree to do the same for you. Please refrain from using strong scents or cologne, let me know if you need the same from me. I also offer tea or water for afterward for helping to ground you after our session.
I accept credit/debit cards, Venmo and accept cash with established clients. I have a 48 hr cancellation policy and am available at various times – I do my best to accommodate week to week. All sessions take place at my office location off the 15 freeway in Scripps Ranch. Outcalls have a two hour minimum with a travel fee of $35 and are currently reserved for established clients.