Professional Cuddlist, John Ellsworth, High Falls NY
Professional Cuddlist, John Ellsworth, High Falls NY
Professional Cuddlist, John Ellsworth, High Falls NY
Professional Cuddlist, John Ellsworth, High Falls NY

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John Ellsworth

Certified Cuddlist

Session Rate: I offer a self-determined sliding scale from $150 to $100 an hour, prorated for longer. See how flush you are feeling and how you like the work.

High Falls, NY (90 Minutes from the George Washington Bridge)

About John

Pronouns: (he/she/they)

Covid Protocol: I had covid in 2020. I am fully vaccinated with a booster. I don’t require masks or vaccination at this time. I am happy to wear a mask upon request.

My greatest joy and nourishment comes from connecting deeply. I was born for contact. I was an avid massager starting at the age of 3. My first business card for massage is from when I was 9 years old.  For the last 20 years, my professional and personal life has been about physically touching people. I have been blessed with an appreciation, affection, and attraction for everybody I have ever touched. This is my passion.

I love the feeling of stretching and pushing my envelope*. I am searching for a greater capacity to be fluent in all situations. Sometimes this looks like finding a way to not feel stress that I don’t want. Sometimes this looks like me leaning into the uncomfortable so that I can learn from it. Sometimes it is about resting and restoring before or after something big changes in who I am and how I relate to the world.

I want to fully meet, support, and empower my clients wherever they are on their path. All of you is welcome.

Session information from John

Please arrive on time or five minutes early having reviewed the code of conduct. Our session begins with a conversation about what you want and what we can do together to help you get it. Goals for our session might include but are not limited to; An oxytocin rush and warm, fuzzy, cozy, feelings. Grounding, relaxing, deeper and easier breathing, stable and centered feelings. A feeling of companionship with a co-conspirator on the path of peace and happiness. A safer more connected place to say things and feel feelings that have not felt fully expressed or witnessed.  An exploration of your desire, how to express it, and how to follow it as it changes.
For some, touch can be overwhelming. I want to assure you that there are benefits and intimacy available even without touch. If we do have physical contact from holding hands to full body contact there are amazing rewards for the body and soul. These rewards are not as great as listening to, respecting, and following your inner wisdom about what feels good to you in any given moment. The goal is not to have as much contact as possible, it is to listen to what you really really want. I am excited to meet you there, whatever that looks like. Ten minutes before our booked time ends I will let you know so that closing the session feels graceful and fluid.
If you are coming to me in High Falls, NY we will be using a room built specifically for healing. If the weather is agreeable, there are 44 acres of land where we could walk, sit, hammock under the trees, or dangle our feet in a stream.
Massage is not included in my cuddle sessions but I bring the same attentive and grounded quality of touch. I don’t generally do outcalls but if you are in a hospital, hospice, or similar situation it is worth having a conversation.

*”pushing my envelope” does not apply to the code of conduct. We can talk about anything and everything but the form and safety of the session is a prerequisite. This service is platonic in nature. The bar I use for platonic is if there was an eight-year-old in the room with us, would you still be comfortable getting what you wanted out of the session? If the answer is no, then this is not what you are looking for.

To get the most out of what you are looking for from your session, please review the Code of Conduct and view some Cuddlist videos.

Skills & Specialties

Embodiment and Intimacy Coach Contact Improv Himalayan Consciousness Teacher Death Dula Musculoskeletal Anatomy Teacher


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