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Lexxi

Trained Cuddlist
In-Calls

New Orleans, LA

About Lexxi

I carry medicinal touch/love. Why? My life was transformed by consistently reaching a quota of touch-based loving care. But not just any kind! The truly healthy, attentive, intentional, platonic kind. Others needed that, too, and so here I am with honed skills, deeply dedicated to dosing the loving touch generously. And quite thankful for the opportunity.

I create and hold a space where:
Your wants and needs lead the way;
You will be seen, heard, respected, loved, and accepted exactly as you are in all of your dynamic humanity;
You can take a break from the mind and come back to your body;
You can choose to be: curious, vulnerable, playful, wild, wordless, heard, seen, nowhere, everywhere, or in between;
You can discover more, remember more, and be more of your most authentic self;
You can explore ways to cultivate and deepen healthy relationships that work for you;                                                                                            You will find your confidence in delivering loving but firm “No”s– so that you have space for more of your “Yes”es.

And!

You will have a supportive partner in all of it, one who is reliably mindful, encouraging, engaging, and sincere.

Need to: be comforted, explore each other’s faces, cry, talk, practice boundaries or asking for what you want, receive soft touch, address touch trauma, learn new communication skills, make a wordless vocal symphony, read a book while spooning? A combo? Not sure what you want? Rest assured that I’m here for you. I have the presence, compassion, and the years of relevant, varied, professional experience necessary to easefully and enjoyably co-create sessions that are maximally satisfying and nourishing for you (check out the “skills” section and feel free to reach out for a bio).

If you want to feel into this more, learn about my personal story, explore and muse about everything touch-related, see my Facebook page “TouchLove”: https://www.facebook.com/thetouchlove/

Session information from Lexxi

THE BOOKING: Once you submit a request, we’ll find a time to hop on a 15-30 minute video call. During this call, we’ll explore intention, discuss your health background, go over a few logistics, and ensure that we both feel that we’ll be an aligned fit. We’ll find a time that works for the main session, and once I receive your 50% downpayment (via Paypal, Venmo, direct deposit, or cash), I will share the address for the cuddle location.

THE PREPARATION: On the day, please refrain from wearing strong scents other than essential oils. Dress comfortably in a minimum of a t-shirt and shorts. Take a shower within 10 hours of arriving, please.

THE SESSION: When you arrive for your session, I will greet you with a brief herbal cleansing and an offering of a hug with an encouragement to check in – about whether you really want to receive it – before you accept or decline. (And if you decline, you’ll hear a sincere thank you for taking care of yourself.) Then, we’ll orient you to the space, review guidelines/boundaries, and do a short, playful exercise to demonstrate expressions of consent and discomfort. After that, the session is mostly up to you and what feels good for you in the moment. I’ll be there encouraging you to speak both your needs and your wants.

THE GUIDELINES: In addition to the “Code of Conduct”, please familiarize yourself with my boundaries. No worries – I will remind you if you forget. And I will honor yours too! (I can also help you hone yours if you’d like.)

    1. Objective Boundaries: These things are never acceptable for me in our sessions. So, please:
      **No strong colognes or scents other than essential oils or herbs**
      **No dry kisses on the lips**
      **No quick/sudden/aggressive tickling or touch of ribcage, armpits or crease of thighs**                                                                        **No hands on parts of the body that would be covered by a bikini**
    2. Subjective Boundaries: the following actions are sometimes okay and sometimes not okay. Depends on many factors at play. Please ask in the moment before:
      **Touching neck or ears with hands or lips**
      **Giving dry kisses on the body (never on the lips)**
      **Slow pulling of hair (being very mindful of previous neck injury)**

Other than that, I am giving you blanket permission to touch. This means there is no need to ask for every point of contact unless that is something you would like to focus on practicing. Make good use of this time to have a cuddlebud who welcomes all the ways that bodies can come into contact, finding no request too “weird” or “strange”.

THE SPACE: The cuddle zone is an energetically and physically clean room with a bed, non-scented candles, filtered water, a speaker that syncs with cellular apps & playlists, organic incenses, & various sound and sensory tools.

THE LOCATION: The cuddle zone and sessions are located in New Orleans in the riverbend area. Address will be sent upon booking. Street parking. For those of you with allergies, please know that there are no pet companions in this space. At this time, all first appointments come to the cuddle space, and then we can discuss the possibility of a home visit. I will consider outcalls for those with alternate abilities that require accommodations that I cannot provide.

THE PAYMENT: **Special Rate: $100/75 minutes for first appointment (which works out to be $80/hr)**. Single appointments are an investment of $100/60 minutes. Rates decrease for 3+hour sessions and for scheduling a bundle of three or more 1hour sessions. Your monetary contribution covers:  30 minutes of space preparation by me in advance of your session, personalized time together that is all about you and yours needs, a followup integration check-in and supportive text exchange with affirming reflections, a remembering by me of your preferences & needs for future time together. Bundles provide a deeper degree of ongoing personalized care.

Half of the session fee is paid at booking as a deposit to reserve a time and the remaining half is due at start of service. I currently accept payment in the forms of: Paypal, Venmo, direct deposit, and cash.

If you feel a strong calling to receive this service and do not currently have life-force in the form of money, I am open to discussing partial to full trade. There are limited opportunities for trade spots at this time. Priority goes to those who are systemically marginalized, are in especially hard times, and/or have a skill/resource that I need in present time. Trades are almost always reserved, for example, for those who have no entertainment budget. Regarding what i accept: it varies. Let’s have a conversation about what you are naturally abundant in (resources, supplies, talents, or skills).

THE CANCELLATION POLICY: Life happens and can be unpredictable. And also: let’s be considerate of each other’s time. In general, deposits will be refunded up to 48 hours before service.

If you have interest, reach out, and let’s explore it further.

Deep thanks for considering this form of selfcare – and for any of the ways that you choose to set aside time that is all in service to your needs. You deserve it. It matters. And the ripple effect is tremendous.

With, for, and to love!

Skills & Specialties

Exercises in Communication & Mindfulness & Breathing & Energetic Clearing. Non-Violent Communication. Active & Reflective Listening. Singer of Soothing Sounds & Songs. Trauma-Informed Training. Sacred Space Holder. Ceremonial Healing Guardian/Guide. Reiki 1 Training. Advanced “Way of the Heart” Integration Training. Energetic Attuner. Relationship Coach & Educator. Intentionality & Integration Specialist. Every Day Ongoing Education. Yoga. Dedicated Mystic.

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