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Certified Cuddlist

Session Rate: $60/hour + Travel Fee for Some Outcalls (Add $1/mile for over 10 miles driving distance from Grossmont College)

San Diego, CA

About James

Hello and Welcome! I’m glad that you found me! I’m James and I’m a professional Cuddlist, Reiki practitioner, intimacy coach, and yoga teacher. I believe that connection, platonic human touch, and deep relaxation are even more vital and necessary today than ever before.

I’m happy that you are exploring how to improve and change yourself in a positive way through greater connection, platonic human touch and deeper relaxation. Too many people aren’t living up to their fullest potential because they are overburdened by the constant stress and pressure of daily living in our culture. Many feel disconnected or alone; lack voice, choice or agency in knowing and communicating what they want or need; or feel deprived of human touch. Cuddling is therapeutic touch that empowers, calms and relaxes.

Ask me about sliding scale rates and packages available.

All are welcome!

Session information from James

I conduct my sessions in my home on the western edge of El Cajon, in your home, or in public spaces like the beautiful parks and beaches we have here in abundance. I will occasionally add travel locations that I will be visiting. Likewise, travelers and visitors to the San Diego area are welcome.

If we are meeting at my house, I have a small dog so let me know if you have any concerns around dogs or allergies.

Wherever we meet, we will create a safe container for the session through boundary setting and clear, open communication.

I will consider same-day and short notice appointments on a case-by-case basis. Generally, at least two days’ notice is preferred to ensure availability.

I ask that you give at least 6 hours notice for cancellations and I request a $15 “courtesy” fee for cancellations with less than 6 hours notice.
I prefer payment in advance via PayPal ( https://www.paypal.me/jamestkeck ).

Please make sure you read and agree to the Cuddlist Code of Conduct before booking a session. If you have any questions, just ask.

I look forward to meeting you soon!

Skills & Specialties

Reiki practitioner intimacy coach and yoga teacher


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