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Reina
Session Rate: $125-200/hr sliding scale (plus travel when applicable). A minimum of 2 hours is recommended. Discounts for longer and recurring sessions available.
Williamsburg, MA
About Reina
(Pronouns: she/they)
I have a bottomless passion for healing, transformation, and collective awakening. Having tirelessly pursued these in my own life, I find deep joy in holding space for others wishing to make a meaningful shift in their lives. I have worn many professional hats in guiding others to discover their inner wisdom and return to love – as a clinical social worker, trained trauma and family therapist, certified life coach specializing in relationships, intimacy & sexuality, certified mindfulness meditation teacher, psychedelic facilitator, dancer, and behavioral researcher. My educational background includes a Master of Science in Social Work (MSSW) from Columbia University and a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology with a minor in Music from New York University.
It is my commitment to meet clients from all walks of life exactly where they are – to hold a safe supportive space for self-discovery and integration to naturally unfold. If you’ve struggled with depression, anxiety, chronic stress, burnout, trauma, addiction, low self-esteem, loneliness, relational challenges, or a nagging sense that you are unlovable, there is something “wrong” with you, or that you don’t quite belong – you will find space for those feelings to be expressed and lovingly held at a pace that is right for you, and only if you want to. All parts of you are welcome in my sessions.
I co-create an agreement for communication and interaction at the beginning of the session and let individual preferences and intuition guide me from there. I empower clients to identify and speak their desires, needs, and boundaries. Sexual desire and arousal are a natural part of the human experience and will never be shamed if they arise. Arousal, however, will not be acted upon in cuddle therapy sessions. Deliberately not pursuing the arousal while acknowledging it and maintaining presence is an embodied exercise of decoupling love and sex. (The two are so often conflated due to cultural conditioning). You may find, perhaps surprisingly, that this practice cultivates a sense of spaciousness, safety, trust, and self-acceptance. I also invite clients to share whatever is most alive for them in their body, mind, heart, and spirit. I offer relationship, intimacy & sexuality coaching, psychotherapy, mindfulness & tantra education, surrogate partner therapy, and movement & sound therapy, in conjunction with nurturing touch and cuddling. I work with couples as well as individuals in all sorts of relationship structures and diverse identities.
Session information from Reina
If you are a new client, please contact me to schedule a complimentary 30-minute video or phone call with a $30 deposit that will be applied to your first therapy session. I will give an overview and address any questions or concerns you may have. Don’t worry if you are a bit nervous about professional cuddling and don’t quite know what to expect – this is normal! If we decide to move forward, payment is due before the session via Venmo, Paypal, cash, or check. (If we determine that this is not the right fit after the call, I will refund you the $30 deposit.)
I conduct in-person sessions in my spacious and private meditation room with large windows looking out into the beautiful woods and stream. You’ll have choices on where to cuddle: the huge orange sectional couch with cozy pillows and blankets, mattress, hammock, daybed with a canopy cocooning you, and/or outdoor swings and chairs by the fire pit in warmer weather. I welcome requests for music, lighting of candles, and aromatherapy. My home office is smoke-free, chemical-free, and has minimal carpet/dust. I have a very affectionate dog named Hazel who is available for cuddles too, if you wish. Otherwise, she will be kept out of the session. My home is accessible by car, and there is free parking on the premises.
With prior discussion and mutual agreement, I am available for sessions in your home or other desired location. Day-long and overnight sessions are available upon request with established clients. Virtual sessions are always available. (They have their own benefits and are way more powerful than what most people assume!)
I would be delighted to work in conjunction with your psychotherapist or coach.
I am fully vaccinated and boosted against COVID-19. Masks can be worn during sessions at your request.
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Testimonials:
“Deeply Healing, Transformative, and Playful
Working with Reina has been a deeply healing, wonderful, and joyful experience. She creates a space that is safe, warm, and nonjudgmental, where I can explore parts of myself that I once felt needed to be locked away, erased, or destroyed in order to be worthy of love. Through our work together, I have found a deeper sense of peace and harmony with all parts of myself.
Reina doesn’t just listen—she asks important questions that help me understand my needs and what makes me feel safe. She has helped me explore and practice both asking for and receiving touch in ways that are mutually respectful, caring, and pleasant. I had long struggled with feeling safe offering and receiving touch, and I carried deep shame toward the sexual part of myself. Reina guided me through concrete, embodied practices that gave me the skills to navigate and heal these wounded parts of me.
What makes our sessions especially unique is the playfulness and levity she brings through games and exercises. Healing with Reina isn’t just about processing pain—it’s about rediscovering joy, connection, and wholeness in a deeply felt way. I use traditional therapy in conjunction with the work I do with Reina, and as valuable as that has been, I cannot imagine it alone bringing me the kind of healing I have experienced through these embodied practices.
If you are looking for someone who offers a truly transformative and holistic approach to healing, I cannot recommend Reina enough.” – Thomas V. (Torrington, CT)
“At first I was quite skeptical as to the effectiveness of cuddle therapy and how it would translate into my daily modern human habits but I have been very much touched so sweetly by Reina’s openness to allow the inner parts of me that so needed compassion, tolerance, and friendly guidance that life feels a little bit lighter and the darkness is a little easier to keep at bay! What a gift to the world Reina’s presence is! She really has the tenderness that allowed me to be grounded while sharing my truth. Anticipating another great heart opening session thru the art of cuddling!” – David H. (Ackworth, NH)
“This was my first experience with a Cuddlist, so I was understandably a bit nervous. My fears were put to rest upon having a Zoom call with Reina. Her professionalism was apparent from the very beginning. We went over ground rules and the definitions of appropriate touching and set up an appointment for that next Friday. When I arrived, she put me at ease immediately with a big hug. From there, we entered her beautifully appointed spacious abode where I was able to change into my ‘cuddling attire’ (sweat pants). After discussing the options of the surfaces: chaise lounge, bean bag or bed- I opted for the bag, we began our session. I felt warm and safe at all times and she led with suggestions and guidance. It was so therapeutic and healing and I got to explore my feelings. She was understanding and comforting and I would highly recommend. I would definitely do this again. I’m a 64 year old widower by the way.” – Dan S. (Bennington, VT)
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