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Hi! My name is Roel Wolters. Since I was diagnosed with autism in my early childhood, I often used to feel lonely and misunderstood. Over the years, I've developed a strong drive to be there for others, so that they don't have the feel the same way I used to.

I believe cuddling just feels great. It's not just a romantic gesture, it's also an easy way to make people feel happy and loved. It's a shame that we'd limit cuddling to a romantic partner when there are so many people out there who desperately need such physical closeness in their lives. We've made it so hard, when it could be so easy.

Aside from being a trained Cuddlist, I'm also a personal coach for people with autism, most of all those that feel overwhelmed, misunderstood or outcast. Regardless of how I'm supporting my clients, my goal is always the same: to make you feel heard, to assure you you're not alone, that you're deserving of love just the way you are. 

When you reach out to me through the 'Request a session' button, I'll reply within up to 24-48 hours to schedule a screening video call with you through WhatsApp, Zoom or Teams, so we can determine whether we'd be a good fit for each other. I will also take this time to explain what you can expect from a session. If we both decide to move ahead after the screening call, I'll reach out so that we can schedule the session.

Please be aware that I'm only available for outcalls (at your home or a hotel room) or public sessions. Sessions start at 1 hour and may last for up to 3 hours, at a base rate of €80,- per hour. From my home in Gelderland, I'm able to travel to most locations within the Netherlands in addition to locations near the border in Germany and Belgium. The cost of travel (return trip, by car or public transport) will be passed to the client on top of a €20,- hourly travel fee.

After we've scheduled a session, I'll request payment (session + travel fee) through Tikkie or bank transfer, to be fulfilled no later than 48 hours before the session starts. You may freely cancel at any time up to 48 hours before the session for a full refund; rescheduling is also possible within this timeframe. Sadly, I'm unable to provide any refunds for cancellations within 48 hours of a session.

One important aspect of my autism is that I need clarity in social interaction as much as I give it to others. I promise to be as clear as possible about my boundaries, and I'd kindly ask you to make the same promise to me in return.

Your cuddle space must be clean and reasonably organized. It's okay for other people to be in other rooms of the house, but our cuddle session will be fully private. Suitable cuddling surfaces may be a couch, a bed (provided we only cuddle on top of the covers), or a soft mat on the ground, in all cases with any pillows necessary to provide support and comfort.

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