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Session Rate: $100-125/hour + Travel Fee Based on Location *Baby Cuddling offers different rates. Ask me.

Santa Barbara, CA, San Luis Obispo, CA, Pismo Beach, CA, Montecito, CA, Solvang, CA, Santa Ynez, CA

About Becky


I am fully vaccinated. I currently require my clients to be fully vaccinated as well. I look forward to a time when we live in a world where this isn’t necessary.

I have always been a cuddler. Touch is one of my primary Love languages and I believe in its power to connect and heal. I have been cuddling professionally since 2017. In addition, I am a life coach specializing in recovery from traumatic relationships and also a teacher of yoga. Helping people heal and feel valued is my mission.

Can you remember a time when you felt completely Loved, seen, and accepted? Do you know the feeling of being really listened to and acknowledged? It is my intention that you feel this way during a cuddle session with me. If you haven’t felt this way before, you deserve to experience it.

We each have our own unique touch story. Your experience of touch as a child, in romantic relationships, even in work environments, shapes how you feel about and respond to touch. Our sessions are always based on mutual consent and the comfort of both of us. That can look like sitting and holding hands, various cuddling positions, or even no touching at all. We create the session together.

Regular cuddling has been known to decrease feelings of depression and anxiety, improve sleep, lower blood pressure, and increase feelings of belonging and connection. We humans are “feeling” creatures and healthy, affectionate touch is beneficial in countless ways.

Due to cultural, societal, and now pandemic reasons, we live in a touch-deprived world. We long for connection with others. Personal cuddling sessions create a space for you to meet your touch and connection needs. It is a vital and powerful gift to yourself.

Session information from Becky

When you request a session, I will reach out to you to schedule a complimentary Zoom chat (about 30 minutes). During this meeting, we will cover agreements, questions, expectations, and generally determine if it feels like a good fit for both of us. If we are both a “Yes” we will schedule a session time then.

OUT CALLS: I’m offering in person cuddle sessions at your location, or at an outdoor space we agree upon. For outdoor sessions, I have a large beach tent, pillows, and blankets. We will discuss options and spaces when we talk on Zoom. A cuddle session can also look like us taking a walk/hike together, sharing a meal, or another outing that we arrange together. Let’s get creative!

AREAS SERVED: I schedule in person cuddle sessions in Santa Barbara County, 5 Cities, and San Luis Obispo. Travel fees may apply.

VIRTUAL SESSIONS: A virtual session can take different forms. We begin by meeting online. From there we may explore sensory experiences together, you may want to talk and/or receive validation for emotions, we may breathe together, you may ask for coaching or for me to guide you through restorative, healing yoga poses. Maybe we eye gaze. We’ll make it up as we go, together.

FORMS OF PAYMENT: I accept Venmo, PayPal, and Cash. A non-refundable deposit of 50% is required at the time of booking, with the balance due at the beginning of our session.

CANCEL/RESCHEDULE: If there is a need to cancel or reschedule, please do so with at least one day’s notice. Your deposit will be forwarded to your next scheduled session.

Skills & Specialties

Certified Life Coach Certified Yoga Coach Wellness Coach Registered Yoga Teacher Trauma Recovery Anxiety and Depression Women’s Issues Mindfulness and Meditation Plant Nutrition Baby/Infant Cuddling Baby Bedtime Routine


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